Are you searching for new ways to satisfy your partner, or do you wish to maximize intimacy with your partner? According to Robin Milhausen, a sexologist, the key to a flourishing sex life is engaging all your five senses: sight, smell, touch, taste, and sound. In this article, I have compiled a list of hot foreplay ideas to try this weekend—Practical ways to engage your senses to improve your sex life and many more,
Intimacy and sexual attraction are pivots in building a lasting relationship. As you might have experienced, new couplings are like a dog with two tails. It makes us feel like we are on cloud nine and that nothing could go wrong. Sadly, things won’t always turn out the way we would want them. As the relationship grows older, repetitions of old experiences make things unadventurous and eventually lead to cheating or break-up. This explanation shows the relevance of stepping up your bed game or intimacy— To keep your relationship adventurous and solid in the long run.
Read on to discover how to drive your partner wild and make them beg for more.
1. BUILD UP THE ANTICIPATION AND CRAVINGS
Contrary to the popular notion, foreplay begins outside the bedroom, not in the bedroom. Before D-day, prepare your partner and make them want you the more. You can do this by sending your partner a nasty text message when they least expect it or sending a cute nude picture (of course, you should only try this cautiously with someone you trust to prevent future nude picture licks). The idea is to make them hornier and ready for when you finally meet. Sending these pictures unlocks your sight sense. After trying this, you will notice a heightened sex drive and an unquenchable thirst for each other.
2. ADD RED WINE TO YOUR ALONE TIME WITH YOUR PARTNER
As you may already know, red wine is an aphrodisiac meant to increase libido or sexual desire. An Italian study in 2009 revealed that regular moderate intake of red wine improves women’s sexual health. It increases sexual energy, potency, and function. Aside from red wine, you can consume other healthy aphrodisiacs like maca, red ginseng, chocolate, nutmeg, fenugreek, strawberries, and watermelon. Although most of these foods are not confirmed pharmacologically, they are commonly known to increase sexual desire. So, the next time you show up at your partner’s front door, carry a bottle of red wine for a night full of pleasure and satisfaction.
3. WATCH SOMETHING EROTIC TOGETHER
Another hot foreplay idea to try this weekend is to watch something erotic with your partner, something like softcore porn. This action does not only improve intimacy, but it also helps you learn more about each other’s fantasies and sexual desires. Watching something erotic together is great because you can each masturbate alone—it is a way to increase horniness and adventure before sex. So, don’t be too quick to cancel it out. Try it this weekend.
4. TALK DIRTY TO YOUR PARTNER
As mentioned earlier, the key to a happy sex life involves engaging your senses. Talking dirty unlocks the sound 'sexual senses'. You can try this by whispering something sweet and dirty close to their ears. Also, moaning increases sexual desire. It is a way of making your partner know that you want them.
5. KISS THEM PASSIONATELY
Long, slow, deep passionate kisses while touching their face and body are set to turn both of you on. Kissing passionately unlocks the touch sense to improve sex life. Touch is the most relevant sexual sense. Kissing stimulates our brains to release hormones like oxytocin, which improves mood and sexual drive.
6. UNDRESS THEM SLOWLY AND GIVE THEM AN EROTIC MASSAGE
If you want to set the mood and gradually arouse your partner in bed, try undressing them slowly and giving them an erotic massage. This action teases them and increases anticipation and sexual desire.
7. TRY TEMPERATURE PLAY
Temperature play is when your partner uses cold or warm materials like molten wax or ice cube on sensitive zones like nipples, neck, and inner thighs. Temperature play teases and increases sexual desire, thereby increasing intimacy and sexual satisfaction between partners.
8. GO DOWN ON THEM
Going down on your partner is excellent foreplay. It increases and satisfies sexual desire. If you want to drive your partner wild and make them beg for more, try going down on them this weekend.